10 years ago, a friend and I both got triggered during a disagreement. In the heat of things, they made a statement about me that struck the bullseye of my insecurity. It hurt deeply.

We reconciled within a few days, but that comment stuck with me. What if what they’d said about me was true?

With time and reflection (like I talked about in the Reflect & Learn video I shared two weeks ago:    • Reflect & Learn: The Leadership Tool …   ), my fears about the insult turned into insight.

I realized that, yes, they were absolutely right. Through my work with clients since then, I’ve realized they were pointing to a universal truth that could apply to most of us.

Please use this video to make my pain your gain—to help you become a stronger leader today.